This is a post that came from my sister's blog. I found it really insightful. She is a fantastic mother of three boys and I'd love to share this message from her heart. She also takes great family photos as seen here. Great blog Jamie!Perhaps it's b/c the word "love" has been so abused, misused and over-used in our culture as to have stripped down its meaning. Whatever the reason, I have to say that when I hear my boys say, "Mama I wike (like) you" I feel like the honor of all honors, the crown of all crowns has been granted me to wear. There is a deep satisfaction that comes to the soul when you know that you are LIKED and enjoyed......that someone really finds pleasure in your company and is made glad just by the fact that you are near them, even if engaged in some activity separate from them. It's really glorious. My boys, ever growing in their capacity to experience love and in the capacity to express it, are always searching for new ways to define their feels for me and Michael.
How do I like thee? Let me count the ways......A few of their expressions:
"I like you faster than a cheetah."
"I like you bigger than a sharp-tooth (dinosaur)."
"I like you taller than the biggest tree ever."
"I like you bigger than a rainbow."
"I like you bigger than the sky."
And the newest one, and my personal favorite this morning: "I like you fatter than a cloud."
As for Joshua's expression of his LIKE of me....he likes me so much that if I step around the corner out of his view, he literally explodes in ear-splitting screams of displeasure and heart-rending terror. My face is his only consolation. My presence is his only source of peace and joy. He has entered into the phase of babyhood aptly termed "separation anxiety." (Separation anxiety=life is unbearable without your nearness.) While it's difficult to endure in the natural realm of being a mom with real responsibilities that include things other than holding Joshua, it certainly instructs my spirit in the ways of the heart.....and how to hold mine before the Father. It's the experience of God's presence in my life, the feeling of His pleasure in my company, the perception of His smile as He looks upon me even in my immaturity and "baby-ness" that more than upholds me and makes my heart happy and content. Joshua's anxiety in my absence reminds me of the way the human heart was designed. And he reminds me not to mistake "I'm okay with a heart that is distant from God" with "living by faith in the unseen," because I'm really NOT okay apart from deep relationship with God. I just wasn't designed to be. May my own heart "mature" into separation anxiety so that a life without His perceived presence would be just unbearable.
But back to the subject of the post.....here's to being liked "faster than a cheetah."
Hope you enjoyed this as much as I did. Love to all,
Bonnie